We know you will enjoy Alyson and Andy’s Rock n Roll Wedding.
Do You Come Here Often?
Like the perfect Seattle pairing, these two met at a café – Cafe Casbah to be exact. The had been traveling in the same circles for years but until that fateful day at the Casbah they just kept missing one another.
Who better to serve as officiant that the woman who was instrumental in these two getting together? Angela, the Casbah barista that talked these two up to each other, performed the union. Alyson recounts that during the early days, she provided just the perfect amount of meddling that made their intentions for each other clear without being awkward.
Let’s face it, every bride we’ve met is busy. Alyson is no different. She is a multi-tasker extraordinaire. Without time or desire to sit around and read wedding magazines so she read the Offbeat Bride blog features on a weekly basis. She also relied on Indie Bride and Rock n Roll Bride to help build up confidence and to find inspiration.
The Wedding Theme – The Overall Vibe
Alyson and Andy wanted the whole day to be a really super awesome day in their lives. The goal was to let their out of town guests, including the bride’s East Coast family, get a bird’s eye view and flavor of what this couple’s “Seattle thing” is all about.
It is Your Day – The Bonus Hour
After the getting ready and couple shots were done, Alyson and Andy were on the move to their venue. We took off early to navigate through the Seattle Gay Pride Parade but thanks to a speedy driver, we busted through the city like it was nothing. Like a good photographer Kier advised them to think about how long it was before their next meal. Andy and Alyson asked to reroute to the Twilight Exit for a Manhattan and nachos. They turned their phones off, shared a few laughs and even had time to play an old 80s table top video game.
Picking a Seattle Wedding Venue or Two
For the wedding, the couple wanted to select places from their Seattle community. The wedding was held at Central Cinema where Alyson worked for nearly three years.
And, where do you go when you want your friends’ bands to be able to play three separate sets? The Georgetown Ballroom offered a great mix of indoor/outdoor space and allowed for a structure to the party portion of the wedding.
Here Comes The Bride
Getting married at Central Cinema the couple thought they should have a slide show to take advantage of the theater venue. So when Alyson told her friend, who just happened to be Clinton McClung, one of the program managers for the Seattle International Film Festival and former Central Cinema programmer, he said he could help.
Clinton brought her slide show concept to a whole new level. He suggested he make a movie so they put down ideas like the gay marriage scene from Wet Hot American Summer, Beetlejuice, Princess Bride and more. They weren’t trying to be too in your face about their stance on marriage equality but thought it was a sly way to recognize it – especially since they were married in the middle of Gay Pride Day. The movie also featured Wayne’s World, and Billy Idol’s White Wedding video clips.
And How About that Wedding March Song
Making a grand entrance was accompanied by friends of the couple performing the song “Happiness”by Kasabian – a British band the couple had seen earlier in the year. It is their only love song and it was perfect for this event.
Jessica Abbott accompanied by her boyfriend Trevor O’Dell on the cinema’s piano, during the processional. They are an established act that Andy and Alyson help manage bookings for now!
Alyson admitted there were a few times that she would put the song on and rehearse – after work.
Andy and Alyson met halfway down the aisle to the sultry “Boom Boom Boom” by former Seattle band Post Stardom Depression – one of the brides fave bands for many years.
The Wedding Dress & that Amazeballs Reception Dress
To find the perfect dress Alyson started at a wedding shop but then went to Nordstrom’s with her mom, her recently married friend and one of her “wingmen.” The whole process took 3 hours. They had one in her size and it was exactly what she wanted.
What a better way to top off her look but with some sparkle. One of Alyson’s best girlfriends gifted her a fascinator from a Portland milliner friend.
To get the look perfected, Alyson’s wingman, Derik, styled her the day of the wedding (he is her stylist and colorist too).
After the wedding she changed into a reception dress that was made by friend Pia Johns. The dress was textural and full of movement and whimsy. It looked great with her knee high Chuck Taylors.
Dapper Esquire Wingmen
Andy and the groomsmen looked dapper as all get out. Most of this couple’s appointed wingmen had their own black suits. Alyson asked her esquire wingmen to buy new shirts and ties and the ever important Converse Hightops.
Wedding Details Like No Other
The Wedding Logo
It all starts with your wedding logo (Alyson attributes the logo concept to Offbeat Bride). The logo and ceremony invitation and program was designed by the bride’s aunt, Chris Winders. She lives on the East Coast, but is so talented she was able to nail the designs on the first try, exclusively communicating through phone calls and emails.
Once they had the logo they had a stamp made and put it all over their wedding items. It is a great way to brand your wedding and gave the couple lots of ideas on how to use the logo. They put it on matchbooks, invitation poster tubes and can use it for their thank you cards. The logo was also featured on the paparazzi and security shirts made the couples had made for the wedding photographers (us!) and friends in charge of crowd control.
Rock ‘n Roll Poster Invites
Alyson and Andy got a real live rock star to do the poster invites for the party! Jefferson Angell (front man of Missionary Position, now touring arenas of the world fronting Walking Papers) makes excellent show posters, and nailed theirs.
What Rock n Roll wedding is complete without backstage passes. The couple had laminated backstage passes on lanyards for the bride, groom, father of the bride, mother of the bride, wingmen, best man and the Reception Master of Ceremonies. To continue with the rock and roll vibe, two of Alyson’s girlfriends were “doorguys” handing out flyers with musical guest information to incoming guests at the Georgetown Ballroom.
The flower inspiration came right off the blog pages of Offbeat Bride. Alyson quipped she “didn’t know that duct tape had made such advances.” There are many more colors than the utilitarian silver hue. Now duct tape has an arsenal of colors and patterns.
What do you get the guests of a rock n roll wedding? The favors lined the tables in paper lunch sacks that were emblazoned with the couple’s wedding logo. Inside guests found gourmet hard candy from the Stained Glass Candy Company. The tasty treat looks like gemstones. Every favor bag needs a beer coozie emblazoned with a wedding logo (Andy’s idea, since they were doing all canned beer, and, according to his wife, he is NEVER without a coozie!). Also included were matchbooks with the couple’s logo and of course what every concert goer needs – earplugs.
And Now for Some More Music
Alyson and Andy have a lot of friends – and many of them are musicians. Members of all 3 bands are some of their dearest friends and Alyson and Andy are very loyal fans. They joked with the bands that they would be providing them with a captive audience.
Their friends did not disappoint. Hands down this was an amazing concert.
Skill Shot, Seattle’s Pinball Zine, was a main feature of the reception. Since they were reporting on Andy and Alyson’s wedding the guys from Skill Shot donned backstage press passes.
The couple met the Skill Shot guys at Shorty’s, a local bar featuring a collection of sixteen pinball machines ranging from AC DC to the Wizard of Oz. Skill Shots is the insider on the local pinball tournaments and they ran the tournament event at the wedding. The pinball machine was a loaner from the friend’s private collection.
Making a Grand Entrance
One night when they were first dating the couple had plans to go to the 24 hour diner but were too lazy to get a cab. Sacsha, owner of Greener Cab, was pedaling by and asked if they needed a ride. He had his brother with him so they each got into pedi cabs going down 4th Ave at 1 in the morning.
Alyson had read the Offbeat Bride book and was really taken by the concept of having a walk or some private time where right after the wedding the couple walks alone. She was trying to think of how to fit that into their ceremony. And, lightbulb moment – they would pedi cab it to the 2nd location.
Sacsha took extra care to dress up the pedi cab and added a “just married” sign. The entrance created a scene with people honking and cheering along their several mile ride.
They arrived into the courtyard of the Georgetown Ballroom where their adoring fans were cheering them on. The pedi cab was left it in the courtyard and it was a great photo prop.
Fancy Date Night Pizza for Wedding Dinner & Strawberry Shortcake
For this couple they agreed that working in the food and beverage industry really paid off in spades when it came to planning and sourcing locations, supplies and catering for the big day. They kept it local.
Alyson used to work at Zeek’s Pizza – and it is a common date night so selecting fancy date night fare for the wedding was a no brainer. The couple sourced food from Cash & Carry for the salads. And, Bitterroot, a PNW BBQ restaurant in Ballard, did the strawberry shortcake. Alyson worked there and came up with the idea since Andy doesn’t like cake but they both heart strawberry shortcake.
Hilliard’s Beer is a new brewery in Ballard they both love. Both of the businesses Alyson and Andy used to work at serve their product. To keep an eye on budget they mixed in this craft beer with a variety of other beers.
The Wedding Reviews
What did the couple hear after the wedding? For their friends in their social it was the best wedding ever – it had all the things they loved. None of their families had ever been to anything so off the beaten path. It was hard to explain their wedding concept in a cohesive way but now that they experienced it, family members felt like they knew Alyson and Andy a lot better and what their lives are like in Seattle.
Just let everything about your relationship and love shine through. Know where to make compromises with your vision. They had dreams of a photo booth, rock band competition, aerial artists and more but the couple wisely advises that you have got to be ok with saying goodbye to some of those grander visions if they don’t fit your budget or emotional capacity. In other words, don’t bust your budget or your sanity. Keep the big picture in mind.
The Show Must Go On…In Style
Alyson and Andy hired local comedian, burlesque host, and dear friend Vincent Drambuie as the evenings emcee. Not only did he introduce the entertainment, he ran around the venue like a madman, screaming announcements of upcoming reception events (gender neutral bouquet toss, cake cutting, toasts, departing shuttle buses) into an electric bullhorn.
Local boylesque performer, emcee, and singer EmperROAR Fabulous sang love classics between bands to keep the performance element going.
The Glue That Held it All Together
Megan Keller, of a Kurant Event, and her assistants absolutely smashed it, from setting up the cinema to breaking down the venue. Alyson recounts that she barely saw her that day, but she sent her shots, kept the couple on track for the demands of family photos, had more pizza ordered when it ran out (The couple didn’t even know it happened until a month later!), and, in Alyson’s words, “just kicked ass all over the place.” Megan was her rock via phone, email, and text the whole month of the event.
What to Do When Vendors are Friends and Refuse $
To show their gratitude for the talents’ time, travel, learning special songs (“Amzeah” from Minirex and Alyson learned a duet to “Oh!” by Sleater-Kinney, practiced in advance, and totally surprised Andy and everyone else! Missionary Position learned “A Little Help from My Friends” in the style of Joe Cocker, and blew the roof off the house when they closed with it and everybody held hands and swayed). The couple bought a $100 gift certificate to Guitar Center for each band. They picked out a top-shelf turquoise eyeshadow for EmpeROAR and repurposed the venue’s “groom’s suite” as a green room for all the talent.
How Much Does an Epic 2 Venue, 3 Band Rock n Roll Wedding Cost These Days?
The couple tapped into local sourcing and rolled with their budget as the planning progressed. This magazine worthy wedding came in at under $20,000.
The Honeymoon & Beyond
The couple decompressed in Portland for a few days after the wedding, but saved enough money, along with their wedding gifts to spend a month in New Zealand last spring as their big honeymoon. They skydived, rafted, sea kayaked, caved, hitchhiked, ate, and drank their way around a great country. The first of many journeys!
Alyson and Andy now operate a small home business called Hello Lucky. Alyson practices waxing and skincare, and Andy crunches the numbers and writes her paychecks. An excellent partnership!
It took us a while to put this blog together. It was such an epic day and the couple is just very special to us. Many thanks to them for picking us – and for Alyson her time and talent making sure the blog details were just right. She also gave us a great update. Their friend Justin, who beat out his girlfriend Angela for the prize in the gender neutral bouquet toss, is going to be a dad! The couple is happily engaged and expecting their first baby!